Sexological Bodywork

The courage to sense and sensuality is the courage to be

Somatic Wisdom, Sensual Awareness, and Sexual Self-Efficacy:

With self-love, appropriation and a spirit of discovery, find a sensually conscious home within yourself and an authentic expression of your sexuality and identity. Expand your potential for lust, pleasure + vitality.

I accompany you in discovering and developing yourself in the mirror of your sexuality, expanding your erotic abilities and living your potential as a sensual and sexual being.

We dedicate ourselves to your topics about body, sexuality, intimacy, identity and relationship. We invite pleasure, lust and a fulfilling sexuality as a resource and life force, explore how you can expand your potential for erotic pleasure, sensual pleasure and loving intimacy or what stands in the way. I accompany you in inhabiting your body in a self-determined and joyful way as well as in encountering pain, insecurities and your own vulnerability in a mindful and self-compassionate manner.

Sexological Bodywork is consciousness-oriented bodywork and body-oriented sex coaching. People of any gender, sexual orientation and physical condition as well as couples and other relationship constellations can accept and reconcile, appropriate and embody, discover and expand their own and shared sexuality with Sexological Bodywork. The reason can be dissatisfaction or suffering as well as curiosity, interest and desire to develop.

The sensual body, our sexual identity and freedom and the lived and not lived sexuality are topics that concern us all and are part of every life. The intimate, erotic and sexual body, sexuality and sexual energy can be a source of joie de vivre, lust, self-confidence, connectedness, wisdom and creative self-realization. But all this is also a big taboo in society, is manipulated, suppressed and violated by power structures and ignorance with prohibitions, over-sexualization, stigmatization or abuse.

Despite the great importance, there are only a few places where all these facets of sexuality and identity can be addressed and touched, in order to acquire one's own potential, to learn new things and to find out more about this broad field. Often you don't even know what a wealth of knowledge and experience there is to discover in this area of life. The focus on one's own somatic experience allows us to see behind the images that we are all given by media and society. It enables you to understand your own sexuality in constant change and to experience it again and again.

With Sexological Bodywork you can explore this with competent support and in a safe and exploratory setting. Here it is possible to include the naked and intimate body, the chest and heart area, the pelvis, the genitals and the anus in any case in the awareness, but also in the touch if desired. Sensual touch, arousal or stimulation can also be an ingredient when I work hands-on to connect people with their sensual bodies, sexual beings and emotions. You explore the somatic perception of your own desires, limits and impulses and how you bring them into verbal communication, physical contact and expression with yourself or a counterpart. And also how you integrate this into your own identity as a matter of course and on a daily basis and live it socially. This is very personal, but also very political research and empowerment.

Sexological Bodywork sees the body and mind as an ensouled overall organism that is always self-regulating and has many self-activation powers, resources and potential if we just listen to it and want to learn from it. On the one hand, "problems" and so-called "disorders" and "dysfunctions" become a call from the body that wants to get in touch and be supported in its development. On the other hand, we find a sensually conscious home within ourselves if we only allow ourselves to inhabit ourselves with mind, stomach, heart and genitals. For more on the somatic approach see —–Holistic Bodywork.

There are many reasons to explore your own sexuality with Sexological Bodywork.

Sexological Bodywork…

promotes desire, pleasure and vitality.
supports personal growth, learning and transformation.
enables the acquisition and development of a self-validated intimacy and sexuality
layer by layer reveals personal, collective and trans-generational structures, imprints, dependencies and oppressions
creates self-acceptance or expansion of understanding of your own body and sexual sensitivity
supports acceptance and appreciation of your own sexuality and of sexuality in general, beyond religious or social dogmas
explores the authentic expression of your sexuality and values your uniqueness.
deepens the capacity for intimacy and sensuality with yourself and others.
accompanies you to perceive your own body, its inner processes and needs and to relate to them - to embody your own identity in yourself (embodiment).
helps to identify and step out of learned habits and patterns to experience the full spectrum of your potential.
The body becomes a medium of knowledge and awareness about you, your sexuality and your (relationship) patterns.
Your body's own resources help you to have a freer and more pleasurable sex, relationship and everyday life.

In a very practical way, you can research and learn, among other things:

Displeasure or dissatisfaction in the own masturbation and self-love, in a relationship or intimate contacts
curiosity on how these areas can be creatively discovered and expanded
Questions regarding gender identity and sexual orientation
Desires and limits, consent and communication
Discovery and feeling of the sexual anatomy, exploration and activation of the outer and inner body space
Deepening of emotional connectedness and shared sexuality in relationships
Knowledge, learning and playing around themes of arousal, orgasm, erection and ejaculation
Pleasure explorations and expanding your own potential for pleasure
Challenges with your own body image and body experience
Learning to give and receive sensuality
Genital and anal pleasure associated with genital and anal health and well-being
Sexuality after traumatic experiences and with trauma structures
Exploration and reactivation of numb or hypersensitive pain and scar tissue in the genital, anal and pelvic areas
sexuality after childbirth
Sexuality in transition and different phases of life
Regaining the ability to enjoy sex after childbirth or after surgical interventions, for example in the genital area, breast area and on the prostate or on the entire body
uncontrolled consumption of sex and porn
Dealing with unwanted fantasies and the core erotic theme
creative-supportive exploration of fantasies and the core erotic theme
Touch and massage coaching
Coaching on BDSM and kink
Coaching in Taoist Sexuality

The methods

Sexological Bodywork is process-oriented bodywork. In the preliminary talk we will discuss together how you would like to structure the session. The body work can also take place fully clothed and without any direct contact. The form of our cooperation is determined by you at any time. The somatic bodywork takes up the sensuality and intelligence of your body in order to explore your personal concerns, your individual vision. This can be done using a specific method, or it can be found in your body from moment to moment.

The body work can include breath and voice work, conscious movement, witnessing (witnessing), (self) touch, full body, genital and anal massage, body, genital and anal mapping, orgasmic yoga exercises (conscious self-love), pelvic floor exercises and physical mindfulness exercises such as genital meditation.

You can find more information about Sexological Bodywork and the core methods you can learn in a session here on the ISB Berlin website.

As a Sexological Bodyworker, I am ALWAYS clothed at work. It is my job to you as a client to enable your own space of experience and to support a self-affirmed sexuality. Therefore we direct the focus of your perception to your own body and your experience. At the same time, with my presence and touch, I offer you a mindful and non-judgmental space to meet yourself.

See also session options under topic series: Vulvalicious, Penilicious, Genital Joy

Session series for individuals and couples: The Sexological Bodywork Private Experience. Experience the contents of the Sexological Bodywork training on your own body or with your partner. Expand your sensual-sexual horizon and experience the treasures of conscious and self-determined sexuality. Deepen the communication about and in your intimate world, about desires, limits and possibilities.

Erotic massage dancing

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Anal exploration

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scar nourishment

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Integrated Pelvic Work

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